You might not realize how successful online dating is until you explore it first-hand. But when you do dip your toe in the water, remember some simple “rules” to make sure you have a good time:

Remember not everyone’s intentions will match your own.

Within your first hour of being an online dater, you may get some message that simply said “Wow”, for example

It can make you feel the same as if you were on the street. You’re not about to respond. Stay away from the creepy messages.

Another tip is to always use a picture. When someone has a picture of his or her car or a pet as their profile, other users assume it’s because you’re unattractive.

If you are serious about having a go with online dating, then don’t be ashamed to show who you are.

We also don’t want to see a picture of what you looked like three years ago (the worst one I met was 46 but in her profile said she was 36...). Let people judge you and you will have a better chance of finding someone who will like you for what you are. It will make you feel better about yourself. And, more likely than not, you will not be receiving e-mails without a picture. So take the “risk.”

Online daters should keep an open mind. If you decide to try dating online, then expand your horizons. Why not try and talk to someone you wouldn’t have considered before?

Remember it’s the Internet; you never really know exactly whom you are talking to.

Even though online socializing has transformed over the years, it’s important to be careful when meeting people over the Internet. Be sure you don’t give away information that could compromise your safety.

Even if you decide not to continue with online dating, the winks and messages and experience will definitely boost your self-esteem. If you’re looking for something new to try, don’t rule out online dating, because it works for a lot of people.